Expectations:

"If you live by the expectations of what others will give, in regards to what you giveto them....you will set yourself up for disappointment. Focus on the positive at this moment, "today". Don't let the lack of immediate feedback and encouragement discourage you. Be understanding and patient. You don't know what the others are thinking, going, or dealing with. Don't assume. Expectations can sometimes put a lot of pressure on others. It can scare them or make them feel overwhelmed. If you continually give without expectation, pressure, and frustration...it eases the mind of others. it allows them to relax, trust and be "willing" to give back to you in the future. So just keep giving, be patient, and in the mean time, focus on your "present" positives. Do this and you will build appreciation, love, trust, and respect in the mind of others. Lead them to appreciate you and "want" to...rather than feel pressured and "need" to. Let go of expectations. Remain positive and relaxed despite situations not going as you "expect" or "want" them to. If you do, you will be pleasantly surprised suddenly, when you "expect' it the least." ~Simply Positive, 8-21-11